How To Understand "FOR SURE" If A Guy Likes You or Not!
So you landed on this page because you’re really into a guy, but you don’t know how he feels about you. Or maybe you caught a guy checking you out and felt like you had a “moment” and you’re wondering if he’s actually interested, or if he was just stairing and it’s all in your head.
Here’s some tips for you:
1.Body Language! ( ACTUALLY YOUR BODY CAN TALK!!)
The body language can tell a lot about what someone is thinking and feeling just by watching their body language.
In fact, here’s something that most women don’t know "women have more than 50 different body language signs that they’re interested in a guy but guys only have about 10 or something.
OK What does that mean? It means you can easily tell whether he’s interested or not just by watching for a few major signs! All you have to do is to know what you’re looking for.
One of the most common signs is that he looks at you a lot. I mean,really a lot!
If he’s looking at your face a lot or making a lot of eye contact, that’s a sign. Also, if he’s leaning towards you or positioning himself close to you, it’s a key sign.
Want to know more? Watch his hands, feet, and legs. If they’re pointed or angled towards you, it tells you a lot about what he’s really interested in.
When he first sees you, how he reacts? Does he straighten a tie, or fixing his shirt, or smooth down his hair? Pretty sure on this sign that he’s thinking about his appearance while you’re near; because he wants you to find him attractive.
2. Eye Contact VERY IMPORTANT!
Eye contact is one of the most important things to notice about a guy . Many guys will try to secretly look at you when he thinks you’re not watching – so if you catch him looking away when you glance over at him, that’s a good sign! More assured and confident guys will actually make and hold eye contact. It’s true.
If you want to “test out” whether he’s attracted to you, try this: Look over his face for around 3 to 4 seconds (don’t make it awkward and hold it too long!) and then look away. After a second, look back at him – if he holds eye contact with you he’s definitely interested. If he glances towards your mouth he’s REALLY interested. However, if he breaks eye contact and looks away, he’s probably not into you.
If you catch him looking left, then looking right at your face, then looking right – congratulations, he’s very attracted to you. But be careful – don’t confuse a shy guy’s reluctance to make eye contact with a disinterested guy’s. If he’s shy but attracted, he’ll keep looking over at you, you just have to wait and see if he does it.
3. YOU SHOULD : Listen Carefully To Him When He’s Talking To You!
So what do most guys do when they like a girl? What do most of them talk about?
It’s pretty simple actually – they talk about themselves. Lots of guys feel like they have to prove themselves to a woman they’re interested in, so they’ll start talk and talk about themselves.
Try to say something softly. Does he lean in to hear you? Great! Does he stay closer to you after leaning in, or does he retreat away from you?
Keeping an eye on how he positions himself during conversation will help reveal how interested he is in being with you.
4. Try To Understand How He Feels About Body Contact!
Touching someone else and being touched is a super important way to know how interested and how intimate he wants to be with you and a great way to figure out how he feels is to watch how he reacts to touching you and being touched by you.
Guys who are interested will generally find excuses to touch you – like touching your hand when he laughs, or brushing your leg with his without moving it away, or even giving you hugs for the flimsiest of reasons.
5. How Does He Treats You?
When a guy is interested in you, he might start behaving differently towards you,especially if you are in a group. If he starts acting protective towards you, like shifting himself closer to you in any seating arrangement, or putting his arm around the back of your chair, it’s a sign that he’s interested.
One interesting tactic that some guys take is to start flirting with OTHER girls when they’re actually interested in you. A guy will do this when he wants to see your reaction to him flirting with other women so that he can tell whether you like him
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It’s pretty easy to spot this tactic though – watch him when he’s flirting with another girl. If he keeps trying to sneak peeks at you to check your response, you can be reasonably confident that he’s doing it to get a reaction out of you.
Try leaving to go to the bathroom or get something from outside, then see if you can find a sneaky observation point to watch him. If he stops flirting with her when you leave the room, that’s for sure he’s just trying to see what you’ll do.
6. If He Act Interested In Things You’re Interested In...
Look for him to start acting interested in things like a band that you’re into or a TV show you like. If he starts talking about how a band you like is in town in the near future – he’s trying to give you something that you like! He’s interested in you!
Especially keep an eye out if something you brought to his attention becomes his favorite thing. Like, let’s say you told him to watch a TV show because you love it. If it becomes his new favorite thing, probably he’s interested in you.
7. Does He Look Nervous Around You?
Does he nervously laugh whenever you’re near? Does he get sweaty palms when you’re together? How about – does he take deep breaths? Does he look away really fast when you see that he’s watching you?
All of those are strong signs that he’s attracted to you.
Guys aren’t nervous around women they aren’t interested in (most of the time), so if he’s nervous around you, that’s a good thing. It means he’s probably worried about making a good impression on you to get you attracted to him as well.
8. Watch His Friends Closely!
If he’s interested in you, he might have told his friends. Or, they might have guessed it from him in the first place.
Whatever the reason – when you’re around him and his friends, watch his friends closely. If they start making subtle jokes and making fun of him, and the thrust is that he’s interested in you – then he probably likes you!
Watch them when you’re with him and his friends. Do they smile when they see you? Do they smirk at him when you walk into the room – like they know something you don’t?
One thing to avoid here – watch out if one of his friends tells you he likes you when you haven’t gotten that vibe from him at all. His friend might be looking out for himself – to your detriment!
9. Watch His Actions !
A very good major sign to look for is if he’s mirroring your actions back at you. This is often an unconscious tell that people have that they’re interested in someone – he won’t even know he’s doing it.
If you make a gesture, and then notice he makes the same gesture soon after, it means he’s probably interested in you. A great way to let him know you’re interested too (subtly) is to copy his actions as well! Touch your face after he touches his, smooth your hair when he smooths his, and so on.
This one is kind of obvious – but if he follows you around, he wants to be close to you and therefore he’s interested in you. If he sits down at the same table as you for lunch, or follows you to the break room at work, he wants to be closer to you.
10. Is He Trying to Gently Teasing You?
If he teases you at all – definitely pay attention. Is it a fun, gentle tease? If so, it could totally mean that he’s attracted to you. Be aware – younger guys are the most likely to use this tactic to demonstrate interest.
However, if he teases every girl he flirts with, it might just be his style. But if you’re the only girl he teases, chances are that he’s got feelings for you.
Good Luck!